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Writer questions sports figures as “heroes”

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Nick Capena of the San Diego Union Tribune feels that our country all too easily labels our athletes as “heroes” despite their dramatic lives. He cites recently deceased Steve McNair as an example, saying he was a talented athlete undeserving of the “hero” tag because of his adulterous relations.

They do not save lives on operating tables. They do not put on badges every day. They do not rush to put out fires. They do not teach our children for paltry sums.

Steve McNair did not die a hero, but then, he never was one. He was a football player, a quarterback, one of the NFL’s great combatants while with the Tennessee Titans and Baltimore Ravens. By all accounts he was a terrific team leader and clubhouse presence and did so many things for the Nashville community.

But McNair was found dead a week ago yesterday in his Nashville, Tenn., condo, shot to death by his girlfriend, who police say then turned the gun on herself. McNair was married, with four sons, and he reportedly was about to leave his assassin, 20-year-old Sahel Kazemi, for another woman. He was an adulterer, far less fortunate than many athletes who can wear the same label.

This is not a black-and-white thing. It is not a brown or yellow thing. Was Mark McGwire a hero? Ken Caminiti? Nicole Bobek? Tonya Harding? Is Jason Giambi? Michael Phelps?

So they disappoint us, our “heroes.” And yet, because we are what we have become, because the dumbing down of America seems to have no finish line or end zone, we can’t go to sleep at night without their posters on our bedroom walls. We must have their jerseys and wear their shoes.

It’s a pretty annoying article if you ask me. It’s unfair to say that just because you own an athlete’s jersey or have their poster on your wall that this individual is one of your heroes. And I don’t know where Capena is getting the impression from that American adults view athletes as heroes. If anybody thinks this, it’s children, primarily because the athlete plays the sport they play at the time. However, children can’t necessarily distinguish between a “role model” and a “hero.” There’s a big difference between admiring and idolizing someone. Most adults understand this discrepancy, and I don’t know anybody over 20 who would legitimately claim an athlete is their hero and somebody they aspire to be like. There’s obviously much more to be discussed about this subject, but I think it’s a waste of our time. Capena is broaching a monotonous topic. Athletes are not heroes to most American sports fans. They’re heroes to children who don’t know any better. To most of us, at the end of the day, athletes are just entertainers.

Report: Gunpowder found on hands of McNair’s mistress

According to a report by the Nashville Tennessean, Tennessee state medical examiners conducted autopsies on the bodies of Steve McNair and his mistress Sahel Kazemi, and found gunpowder on Kazemi’s hands from the gun that was found under body at the scene.

Feng Li, the assistant medical examiner who conducted the autopsies, said he will wait for the investigation to be closed before he completes Kazemi’s death certificate to reflect that she died of suicide.
“The results were very consistent in supporting our decision,” Li said.
Gunshot residue and ballistics testing are also consistent with a ruling of murder-suicide, Li said.
“With the lab tests to be obtained combined with the autopsy findings, we will put a final opinion on the death certificate,” Li said.

This essentially all but wraps up the “how,” but the “why” may never been realized. Whether she was upset that McNair wouldn’t leave his wife for her or had some kind of mental deficiencies, we may never know.

What’s sad is that McNair was cheating on his wife and because of it, his four sons don’t have a father anymore. Everyone makes mistakes and I’m not one to preach about someone should live their life, but this is just another situation where people need to realize the full consequences of their actions. I feel for McNair’s wife and her four sons.

Updated: McNair’s shooting has officially been ruled a murder-suicide.

Police: Woman with McNair bought gun

According to a report by SI.com, the 20-year old woman that was found shot to death along with former NFL quarterback Steve McNair purchased the gun that was found at the scene.

Police say the gun found at the scene where former NFL star Steve McNair died was bought by his girlfriend less than two days before the two were shot to death.

Nashville police spokesman Don Aaron said Monday that 20-year-old Sahel Kazemi bought the semiautomatic handgun Thursday evening from a person he didn’t name.

An autopsy showed that McNair and Kazemi died early Saturday. He was shot four times and his death has been ruled a homicide. She was shot once and Aaron said police are still waiting for ballistic and gunpowder residue tests before deciding if she was slain or committed suicide.
Aaron said that as far as he knows McNair was not with Kazemi when she got the gun.

You don’t need Gil Grissom to figure this one out; all signs point to preemptive murder on her part. She bought the gun, shot him for whatever reason and then shot herself. Obviously all of the details haven’t been released yet, but considering police aren’t even looking for suspects, it seems clear that this was a murder-suicide.

But what’s not clear is why Kazemi did this and that’s something we may never find out.

Police ruling McNair’s death a homicide

Authorities are officially ruling Steve McNair’s death a homicide, but wouldn’t say whether or not it was a murder-suicide.

McNair, 36, had been dating Saleh Kazemi for several months, and Nashville police spokesman Don Aaron said Sunday that a semiautomatic pistol was found under her body. She was shot in the head. He was discovered in a seated position on a sofa in the living room.

McNair, who was married with four sons, had a permit to carry a handgun in Tennessee, and he was arrested once before with a 9mm weapon although charges in the case were dropped. Police said they had not yet determined who owned the gun found at the scene.

Investigators weren’t looking for a suspect but were questioning friends of the couple as well as Kazemi’s ex-boyfriend. They were also waiting for results of drug and other laboratory tests before deciding whether McNair was killed in a lovers’ quarrel.

“That’s a very important part of the investigation as we work to ultimately classify Miss Kazemi’s death,” Aaron said.

Considering authorities aren’t looking for any suspects and the woman was only shot once in the head with the gun laying nearby, it’s easy to speculate that this was a murder-suicide. But until more details are released, that’s all it is – speculation.

It’s sad to think that McNair was having an affair with a wife and four kids at home, but hey, nobody is perfect. Plus we don’t know what else was going on and there is always more to a story than what is perceived. The situation seemingly could have been avoided, but then again, a lot of tragedies usually are when you look back on it.

I feel bad for McNair’s wife. I can only imagine the hell she has gone through the past two days.

McNair’s death being called murder-suicide

According to a report by the Nashville Tennessean, Steve McNair’s shocking death is being called as an apparent murder-suicide.

McNair, a hometown hero who did extensive charity work in Nashville, had several gunshot wounds, including one to the head. He was found on the sofa of a Second Avenue condominium that he rented, police said. Sahel Kazemi, 20, was found on the floor near him with a single gunshot wound to her head. A pistol was found near her body.

Metro police spokesman Don Aaron said investigators were not actively looking for suspects Saturday night but had not ruled out any scenarios. He stopped short of calling the deaths a murder-suicide, but said the police should be able to classify the deaths today after autopsies and forensic work.

“We expect to make additional conclusions after the autopsy process,” Aaron said

Though much of the attention was on the Second Avenue crime scene, police also swarmed Kazemi’s apartment at the Cherry Creek complex in Hermitage on Saturday. They questioned neighbors who said they often saw McNair visiting Kazemi. Sometimes, neighbors said, she would arrive home in a limousine in the early morning. They also heard arguments between her and her boyfriend.
Most recently, she had a new black car she said was a gift from her boyfriend.

She was arrested in that car, a black 2007 Cadillac Escalade registered to her and McNair, early Thursday at Broadway and Ninth Avenue, just two days before the deaths. She was charged with driving under the influence and refusing to take a breath test. She told police she was not drunk, but high.

This is just an unbelievable story. McNair was one of the good guys in the NFL for a very long time and while I obviously don’t know the entire situation, I struggle to understand why he would be mixed up with a girl like this. She’s 16 years his junior and he’s married with four kids. Why was he with her? Something isn’t adding up here.

But again, we don’t know all the details so it’s not fair to speculate. We should be honoring his life more than trying to get the details about his fatal end, so that’s what I’ll do.

Thanks for the memories, Steve. Thanks for the most exciting Super Bowl I’ve ever watched, the professionalism and your consistent gritty, gutsy play.

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